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Vacation Part I

February 4, 2010

So, I graduated in May. I’d do a post on it, but just really don’t have it in me. It was nice, and feels great to be finally finished. Mom & Jaeden came down to surprise me, which was awesome. My dad flirted with my mom at my post-graduation lunch, which was disturbing.

What have I been doing since graduation? Traveling, getting sick, & a whole bunch of nothing. The traveling part has been awesome. The being sick every vacation has not been. The nothing means I have no amusing stories from the pharmacy.

I’ve decided to make this into 2 posts so it’s not so long. The first will be about our trip to Europe and the second will be about our trip to Japan with Dan, Jeremy, and Matt.

September 25-October 12 we were in Europe while JH & Ashlea watched the girls for us. Misha had to go to Amsterdam & London for business & I decided to tag along. Our first stop was Paris. I am now in love with Paris. The first time I liked it somewhat, but the second time I decided that I love it there. As in I want to have babies with it.

Le Tour Eiffel as seen from outside of Le Palais de Tokyo

le Tour Eiffel as seen from Palais de Tokyo

We decided just to relax & let things happen in Paris. We had a list of things we wanted to do, but didn’t plan out our days too much. I wanted to go back to Versailles because we missed so much the first time, but we slept in too late the day we planned on going. We really wanted to go to le potager du roi (vegetable garden created during the reign of Louis XIV) but we were still sleeping when it closed for the week. I think we will try to go next time we are in Paris. In addition to the vegetables, you can buy jams made from fruit grown in the garden. What an awesome gift that would have been for a certain UH professor/French historian!

We rented a loft & will do that next time too. It was nice having our own space with a kitchenette, washer/dryer, etc. In 2008 we rented an apartment in Saint Germain but this trip we stayed in Montorgueil. I would love to stay in le Marais next time (I could get the best falafel I’ve ever had almost any time I wanted it!) We had a lot of fun just walking through different areas & going to the markets. Misha, of course, loved the meals the most!

View of Notre Dame at night across the Seine

View of Notre Dame at night across the Seine

I cannot get over how beautiful Paris is at night. A lot of cities are pretty at night with all the lights, but there was something about Paris. We really liked the Luxembourg gardens & the Tuileries. We went to the Place de la Concorde, where the guillotine was erected during the revolution. Fun French Revolution fact: during the heart of the revolution, the revolutionary government renamed the Place de la Concorde the Place de la Révolution. Louis XV, Marie Antionette, and somewhat ironically, Maximilien Robespierre were all guillotined in this square.

As you can imagine, I totally geeked out at the historical sites and went crazy on our last day when we got to go to the opening of the French Revolution exhibit at the Carnavalet Museum, (the museum of Paris history). We couldn’t read most of the information, but I think I impressed Misha with my knowledge & explanations. (Perhaps he doesn’t think my degree is such a waste now!) I was quite disappointed that they glossed over The Terror, but it is understandable. Interesting to study, but not a very proud event in French history.

Courtyard at the Paris Museum (Musée Carnavalet)

Courtyard of the Musée Carnavalet (Paris history museum)

After Paris, our next stop was Copenhagen. Copenhagen is another really pretty city. Living in Houston (where almost nothing is preserved) it is amazing going to these cities where the architecture is stunning & there is so much history. I’d like to go back because we were only there for a few days, and it was so damn cold while we were there. We like to walk around cities & I needed a much heavier coat in Copenhagen! I’m shivering just thinking about it.

Copenhagen at night

Those are swans near the center of the picture.

We happened to be visiting Copenhagen while the Obamas were there for the Olympic bids & announcements. We saw a large crowd in the square across from our hotel and found out that was where they were doing the announcements. We went over there and watched for about an hour before returning to the hotel. All of the Danes were rooting for Chicago, but there were a surprising number of people there for Tokyo (many of them were dressed as Pikachu).

The square where Olympic announcements were made. Note the Japanese delegation dressed as Pikachu.

The people there we so nice. I swear, the Danes are the happiest people on earth. They are just all so friendly. The only people who weren’t were the woman at the front desk at our hotel (I think she was German though) and an Australian waiter at a restaurant. With the Obamas in town we came across one slightly disgruntled cab driver. He was upset that the roads had been shut down earlier in the day and complained that Michelle Obama had an eight car entourage when the Queen of Denmark only requires one car when she is there. I assured him that the cars were probably for Oprah!

Our last day & 1/2 in Copenhagen weren’t very much fun. It was even colder and was pouring rain. As I was starting to feel sick, I decided to stay at the hotel our last full day there trying to rest. If we ever go to Sweden, (I really want to see Stockholm) I’d like to go back to Copenhagen for a few days to see more of the city. Misha would like to go back just to eat at NOMA again.

At the Lego store in Copenhagen (We took this picture for Jaeden)

We went to Amsterdam next & Misha had to start working. I was starting to feel worse & only went out a few times while Misha was working. The last day there I didn’t want to stay in the hotel anymore and wanted to see more of the city. We were staying in a much nicer area than our trip in 2008 and I walked around there and went down to look at some of the stalls at the flower markets. Having been to Amsterdam twice now, I really don’t have any desire to go back. Parts of it are pretty, but I think there are many other places I would like to go to.

Floating flower market in Amsterdam

The highlights of the trip to Amsterdam were getting chocolates at Puccini Bomboni, getting chips at Chipsy King (see husband’s blog post from 2008 for more on that), & eating at the Pancake Bakery. We brought some chocolates back for JH & Ashlea as well as our friend Alison (she really liked them). Once Misha finished his own chocolates, it took considerable effort on my part to convince him not to eat the ones we brought home as gifts.

So good.

The last stop on our extended vacation/work trip was London. I love London. I adore London. It’s really too bad that I was so sick I didn’t want to eat or get out of bed. We stayed at the Hotel Indigo at Paddington station and it was lovely. After a problem with the thermostat in our room, we moved to a slightly larger room & then their biggest room for our last 3 days.

Very pretty, but itty bitty room.

I forced myself to go to the British Museum our first day because I really wanted to see the Rosetta Stone. I saw most of the museum, but did it very quickly. I wanted to get the hell out of there because it was apparently kids day. There were school children in their uniforms running around everywhere. The last thing I wanted to deal with while I was sick were screaming children. When we went to London with Dan & Tara in 2007, we were amazed at how well-behaved the British children were. Yeah, not these kids. I’m not sure if it was the lack of supervision (the teachers were mostly ignoring them) or what, but they were wild!

Over the rest of the week I made myself to walk around the area we stayed in, but didn’t do much else during the day. I went out to dinner with Misha at night, but missed out on so much of the city. I hope that I’ll be able to tag along another time when Misha has to go back. Once we got home it took me over a week before I felt better. Major suck.

Portobello Road Market on a Saturday. Insanity.

While I was bedridden in London, I read the entire Southern Vampire Mysteries series (aka Sookie Stackhouse novels) on my Kindle and quickly decided that I’m totally Team Eric. I watched season 1 of True Blood on the plane back to Houston and got season 2 once we got home. Much of True Blood annoys me (like setting up Bill as the hero & Eric the villain, oh and don’t even get me started on the extended maenad storyline) but the eye candy of the series makes it quite nice.

I’ll work on Part II, our Japan trip, soon. Well, hopefully I will. I’m waiting for Misha to put the pictures up still. (Spoiler: I got sick in Japan too.)

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It’s been a year…

January 20, 2010

We lost our Isabell exactly one year ago today. It still breaks my heart and I miss my her & think about her every day.

Ashlea was right… I’ll never quit missing her, but it does hurt a little less now. To avoid crying again, I’ve decided to post a few pictures of our girl.  I’m sure that a few of them are repeats, but I wanted to include them in this post.

Bell Bug & Mommy

Bell Bell & Daddy are in love

The sisters when they were much younger pups.

Mommy & her girls in 2007

She was so mad that she wouldn't stop barking until I took the costume off of her

Take at the Omni in Dallas during Ike. Saddest hurricane evacuee ever.

Taken soon after her cancer surgery. She needed some comfort from her sister.

Bell & Mommy are exhausted while studying during finals week.

Our happy girl

My favorite picture of Isabell.

We miss you Bell Bug.

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Please remove yourself from my life.

December 30, 2009

Why are there some people who just do not have a fucking clue? You know, the person who you avoid like the plague. You want to explain that if you wanted to spend time with them you would be in contact. “Don’t call me, I’ll call you (asshole).”

One such person in my life is the woman I call my step-whore. This would be the woman my Dad had an affair with & then married when I was in elementary school. I have no relationship with her, nor do I desire one. If I never heard from her again it would be too soon.

So, I’m sure the tens of you who read this are wondering what brought this rant on. The bitch tried to add me as a friend on Facebook. I didn’t care about that. I just laughed, said “Hell to the no!”, denied the request and moved on.

A few days later I get an email from my dad telling me that he needs to “talk to me about a couple of things, no big deal to [him]“. I went to lunch & found out that the step-whore made him talk to me because I denied her friend request. Seriously. No kidding. For real. You can’t make this shit up!

She whined to him because I am a big meanie head & denied her friend request. He asked me to have lunch with him & asked me to consider her request to make it easier on him. I’ve considered it and my answer is still no.

She was shitty to us (especially to my brother) when we were younger and I see no reason to have her in my life. It’s not like I go out of my way to be mean to her, I don’t anything her. The woman simply doesn’t exist as far as I’m concerned. Once I give my dad the shirt he asked me to bring back from Tokyo (he paid for it) she will be out of my life. Well, that is until I have to see her at my brother’s wedding in September. Damn it.

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Q: What happened when Lassie’s pup ate a slice of honeydew?

December 3, 2009

A: She became a “melon-collie” baby.

This was the joke on my honeydew-hibiscus Hint water the other day and seems fitting. I’ve been melancholy for the past few weeks.

I think it’s all just kind of hitting me. Last year on October 28th, I found out that I was pregnant. I soon became really sick and by mid-November had lost over 5 lbs due to hyperemesis. I kept thinking it was a good sign because it meant my hormones were high. I was in the hospital the week before Thanksgiving last year and put on the Zofran pump to control the nausea and hopefully allow me to keep some food and water down.

The hardest thing to wrap my head around is that last year while in the hospital I had our baby growing inside of me. I had an ultrasound and saw the baby’s heart beating. That was the last time I would see that. We didn’t know it, but the baby stopped developing very soon after that hospital stay. I had no signs for miscarriage and went until December 8th thinking that everything was okay. Thinking that we were going to be parents. Not realizing that it was over. Then a routine ultrasound showed no fetal development and all of a sudden it was over. (Well, except for the nausea which lasted another 5 days.)

On December 10th it will have been a year since I had the D&C that officially ended my first pregnancy. I’ll admit that it still hurts. It’s not a constant ache and I’m fine for the most part, but it hits me suddenly sometimes. My due date was a really hard day for me. Appointments with the OB/GYN can be hard. Every negative pregnancy test hurts. (I thank god for Tara and booze those days.)

I know I’ll be okay, but sometimes it’s a bit much. I feel like my life has been placed on hold. I can’t make plans because I don’t know when I’ll be pregnant or when I’ll have a baby. I can’t start grad school. My control freak self is going crazy. I like to have a plan. I just want to make it to December 11th right now. In my head time is crawling to that date. Once I make it there I can dust myself off but for now I’ll just pout.

Alternate title for this post: “It’s my blog & I’ll have a pity-party if I want to”

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Yikes

September 24, 2009

We leave for Paris in less than 28.5 hours! I’m really excited, but have a lot to do today.
On the list:

  • Pick up prescriptions from Target
  • Type up puppy/house care instructions for your wonderful friends/puppy sitters
  • Go to our bank & take cash out then go to Wells Fargo & get foreign currency (we need British pounds, euros, and Danish kroner)
  • Find the money we have left over from other trips
  • Possibly return a jacket at Gap (if time)
  • Call the credit card companies so they don’t cut out cards off while we are in Europe
  • Get alarm codes for the puppy sitters
  • Get my eyebrows threaded
  • Buy another suitcase so we don’t have to take the big duffel bag
  • Finish packing
  • Spend as much time as possible with the girls before we leave
  • Give the girls baths and have them get pissed off & ignore me for a while (this will give me time to finish packing)
  • Clean the house, which I have destroyed in the past couple of days while doing laundry & packing

I gave up on finding boots & figure I’ll look for some while I’m there. I do need to get some flat black shoes, because I can’t wear my Chucks everywhere, but I doubt I’ll have time to look for them.

I guess I should get started. I’ve been laying in bed petting Zoë for about an hour. I’ll try to update from Europe!

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Leaving on a jet plane

September 15, 2009

The rest of this year is going to be a lot of fun. We’ve got a trip to Europe (4 countries in 17 days!), then a trip to Japan, and finally Dan & Tara try to make things kosher with Jesus. There is also possibly a trip to New Orleans for Dan’s bachelor party in there somewhere. I’m going to force my way into the bachelor party because dammit, I’m the groomsgirl.

I’ve been planning, planning, planning for weeks (okay months) now and everything is booked except for the Kyoto leg of our Japan trip. First the details from our Europe trip. We begin in Paris and have rented a gorgeous apartment in the Montorgueil area. (Click on “Large Pictures” to see all 21 photos.) I’m looking forward to finishing the things on my Paris list while we are there and Misha is looking forward to eating a lot.

In Copenhagen we got a really good deal on the Ascot Hotel. I don’t have a huge list of things to do in Copenhagen, but Misha has a huge restaurant list. He had a reservation to Noma before we had a hotel or flight there!

Once we get to Amsterdam Misha goes back to work. We are staying at the Eden American Hotel because that’s where his coworker stays. I didn’t really like Amsterdam the first time we went, so I haven’t really planned much. I am going to go to the Anne Frank House and plan on eating frites at Chipsy King & pancakes at the Pancake Bakery.

London is our last stop on our European tour. Ah London, I love London. Not as much as I love Sydney, but I am glad to be going back. I have lots of plans and love the hotel we are staying at. We have a room at the Hotel Indigo at Paddington station. I got a really good deal on the executive king room (girl not included) for the days we are paying but couldn’t get the same deal for the days work is paying for. We are in a double room for those days. I get to have fun while Misha is at work during the day, so I’ll get to go to museums that he would find to be boring.

Now briefly, on to the Japan trip. Dan, Jeremy, and our friend Matt are all going with us. We will start in Tokyo and are staying at the Hotel Monterey Hanzomon (There’s a moat around the hotel!). We leave and go to Kyoto for 3 nights. I’m not certain yet where we will be staying while in Kyoto. We would like to stay in a traditional Japanese inn, I just have to locate one… We finish out the last few days back in Tokyo. I’ll probably post more details on the Japan trip (or not knowing me) once I’m back from Europe.

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Again?

September 1, 2009

Dear Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar,

We get it. You’re fertile. Enough already.

Sincerely,

Season (still TTC #1)

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For Aunt Sue

September 1, 2009

Here are a few new pictures of Zoë the terrible before and after her haircut. She’s huge! She weighs ~ 25 lbs now!

This was taken in early August

This was taken in early August

Misha dropped her off for her first groom  a couple of weeks ago. I was sad because all of her baby hair is gone. I miss the black fringe on her chin! When I picked her up from the groomer she was apologizing because she wasn’t able to finish her face. Zoë was over the haircut and decided she wasn’t getting any more done & this was the best the groomer could do. It looks a little less Dallas now.

Sad puppy after getting her first haircut

Not at all impressed with mom and dad or the stupid haircut.

She was so distraught she cuddled with Baby for comfort. (Maggie is in front of her.)

Please Baby, don't let them leave me anywhere again! I promise, I'll stop biting your collar & having you drag me down the hall!

Please Baby, don't let them leave me anywhere again! I'll stop biting your collar & making you drag me down the hall! I swear on my nylabones!

She had a bad reacting to the grooming. The vet said it was either from her ear hair being plucked (OMG, ouch!) or having drying powder put in her ears. Either way her ears were really sensitive & she wound up at the vet the next day. She got 7 day ointment put in her ears & was a very greasy puppy. (I think she just missed the vet techs!)

Playing cute at the vet's office.

Playing cute at the vet's office.

Misha had a bachelor party to go to on Saturday night and Zoë was very sad that he wasn’t home. She decided to mope around and I found her in our bedroom laying against Misha’s pillow.

Getting ready to fall asleep on Daddy's pillow

Getting ready to fall asleep on Daddy's pillow

The saddest puppy in the entire world.

The saddest puppy in the entire world.

I’ll take pictures next time we go swimming. I didn’t think it was possible, but she loves to swim just as much as Isabell did.

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Baby updates

August 27, 2009

I get to pick her up at 4:00. At first the vet thought she might have had another seizure, but it doesn’t look like that’s the case. He said dogs normally have coliform bacteria in their systems but stress can cause the level to rise & result in diarrhea. They did a urine test too & found white blood cells so they think that she might have a UTI.

I have to wait until 4 to pick her up because she got some diarrhea on her fur and they had to give her a butt bath to clean it off. If you know Baby, you know she is probably humiliated right now. She gets very embarassed over butt baths and won’t even look you in the eye after she gets one. I just hope they are telling her how pretty she is!

Nasty Baby

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FML poop edition

August 27, 2009

I woke up at 6:45 to the smell of poop, and realized with the smell that strong it had to be a big one. I figured Zoë had another accident but no… There was regular poop then there was a circle of diarrhea. FML. The dog that poops in a circle is:

sad Baby

When ever Baby does something bad, like pooping or peeing on the floor she will continue to pee because she’s nervous. So this morning I had 4 big spots of pee on the floor which just confirmed that it was Baby.

Misha called the vet and he is dropping her off today. I swear I keep them in business. She’s feeling really sick and really guilty even though I keep telling her it’s okay. I’m fairly worried because when I was cleaning up the pee the towels had a reddish-brown color on them. I hope my carpet is just dirty, but we’ve been here before and it was blood in her pee. I’ll do a Baby update later.